Writing

These pieces are where I work out, in writing, what I do clinically. Most are for people considering or already in this kind of work; a few are written for clinicians and marked as such. There's no required order, but a few natural starting points are below.

How I use AI in this writing

A few starting places

What Is Depth EMDR? — for the work in one piece

When Understanding Isn't Enough — if you've been in therapy and feel stuck

On Spirituality in My Work — how I hold meaning-making in therapy, and how I don't

How to Use Therapy in the Age of AI — what each is for, and what only the human work can offer

Nattan Hollander LMFT Nattan Hollander LMFT

The Part of EMDR Nobody Can Fully Explain

EMDR's bilateral activation may be the most mysterious component of trauma therapy. Nobody fully knows why it works — but it may be a deliberate, concentrated version of something the body already knows how to do when we go for a walk to work something out.

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